A could be useful quizz

http://projects.wsj.com/quiz/?uid=bonds1202&type=flat&mod=djem10point

Perhaps it's not too late to:

Rate Your Marriage

By giving each of the following 40 statements a rating from A (least agree) to E (most agree), a couple can get a sense of the strengths and weaknesses in their marriage in eight categories. The quiz, while unscientific, can be a useful tool for gaining insight or sparking discussion.